“Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.”
– Omar Khayyam –
Don’t miss it.
I know you dreamers, because I am one. This is what I’m saying to me today, and to you today.
Let’s not miss the life we actually have while we’re busy looking through pictures of other people’s lives–their best moments–caught on film. And we compare ourselves to that, and we live in that world, a world of people’s best moments sewn together like a patchwork quilt of reality. And then we look at our own reality, and it doesn’t seem to quite measure up
We spend hours on Pinterest and Facebook, looking at all the things people are doing and the places they’re going, and the things they have.
On Pinterest, we save all the things we’d like to get or do for ourselves…and we forget the things we already have. The things we are actually doing. The places we actually go every day.
In books, we take adventures, make friends, come to love characters. When I finish a book, I often wish the characters were real, because I love them so much. I would never be one to criticize reading, that’s for sure…but I wonder. Is this another place where we can accrue to ourselves people that we like, people who we identify with…and then forget that there are already people in our lives who, like it or not, are ours? People whom we are not just asked, but commanded to love, by the God who loved us first.
We dreamers can live in the future…all the roads yet traveled, all of the beautiful things yet to be seen or touched. The beautiful family we might one day have. The wonderful people we might one day know.
And we forget the simple magic of the hum of our tires on the roads that we travel day in and day out.
Lost in dreaming, we can lock ourselves away form the hard work of making relationships here and now. Relationships that are strong. Relationships that matter.
And I’m as guilty of this as the next person. I’ve pinned up all of the future glories that I dream of. I mean, I’ve spent hours pinning pictures of boots. Short boots, tall boots, ankle boots, knee boots…and it’s not even that that’s bad.
It’s just…today I woke up and the boots I’m wearing are the ones that were already in my closet.
And the way I did my hair is the way that I always do my hair.
And my fake little imaginary world didn’t change that.
I can drive down the road that I drive a couple times a week, not even seeing it. I’ve let myself grow dull to it. I’m so busy thinking about Pinterest-board trips that I don’t stop to enjoy the one that I’m on today. I told myself that I’m tired of this road.
But why am I so tired of it? I don’t want to be.
Maybe it’s because I keep looking for the bigger and the better and the next and the someday.
I think that’s it. Someday.
It’s not even that I don’t like this road…it’s that I’m too busy thinking about the next one.
So, to all you dreamers out there like me, please. All we have, all that’s been promised to us, is today. This road. This family. These people’s love. These moments. These realities.
Please don’t stop dreaming. But remember that those dreams are just that…dreams. They’re not real yet. And if they do become real one day, enjoy them then.
I don’t think they will taste nearly as sweet if we wring all the enjoyment out of them before we even get to them.
I’m not so scared of my dreams not coming true. I’m more scared of missing the dreams come true that I already have, that I’ve forgotten were once dreams, because they’re real now. And maybe when they’re real, we dreamers go to the next dream.
I don’t want to be like that.
Today, this dreamer is going to live in today.
And tomorrow this dreamer is going to live in tomorrow
And I’ll keep pinning the pretty boots on Pinterest, and I’ll keep budgeting for long vacations, and I’ll keep dreaming about what it would be like to have a special family of my own one of these days. I’ll smile and I’ll dream. I’ll always keep dreaming.
But I won’t forget that I already have a family of my own–a different kind, but my very own. And I already have boots that I really like. And I already go places with people I love.
Thank you Lord, for the alreadys.
And help me not forget where I really live.
Maybe this is called contentment. Learning to live and love where you are.
Today. Already. Now.
“I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”– Philippians 4:11b-13, NIV –